Petua penawar jiwa....

Nabi s.a.w. besabda yang bermaksud:

" Sesiapa yang apabila dia berada di hamparan tidurnya beristighfar sebanyak tiga kali, dia
memohon ampun kepada Allah, Allah s.w.t. akan mengampunkan dosa-dosanya."
(hadis riwayat Ibn 'Asakir)

Daripada Abu Hurairah r.a. beliau menceritakan bahawa pada suatu hari Rasulullah s.a.w. datang kepadanya yang sedang bercucuk tanam. apabila nabi datang, Baginda bertanya kepada saya, "Wahai sahabatku Abu Hurairah mahukah aku tunjukkan kepada kamu satu tanaman yang lebih baik daripada tanamanmu ini?" Aku menjawab, "Apakah dia ya Rasulullah?"


Jawab Baginda, "subhanallah alhamdulillah walailahaillallah allahuakbar"

adalah lebih baik lagi daripada tanaman ini. Apabila kamu berzikir kepada Allah s.w.t., setiap zikir yang kamu ucapkan Dia akan menanamkan untukmu sepohon pokok di dalam syurga.


Diharap titipan ini dapat dijadikan pegangan kepada kita semua..sama-samalah kita jadikan zikir sebagai suatu amalan. Jika kita boleh mencari masa untuk makan dan berhibur, apa salahnya andai kita luangkan sedikit masa untuk mengingatiNYA dengan berzikir. Sebelum tidur, pupuklah hati kita agar memaafkan apa yang silap dan memohon maaf andai berbuat kesilapan. Kita imbas kembali perkara2 yang kita telah kita lakukan pada hari ini. Kita harus sentiasa bermuhasabah agar kita tidak terus leka dengan keduniaan..


Kelebihan Zikir Kepada Allah
Allah Yang Maha Besar selalu mengingatkan kita di dalam kitab-Nya Al-Quran Al-Karim supaya berzikirillah seperti berikut:

“Dan sebutlah nama Tuhanmu pada waktu pagi dan petang, dan pada sebahagian dari malam, maka sujudlah kepadaNya dan bertasbihlah kepadaNya pada bahagian yang panjang di malam hari.” Surah 76: Al Insan, Ayat 25 & 26

“Dan sebutlah nama Tuhanmu dalam hatimu dengan merendahkan diri dan rasa takut, dan dengan tidak meninggikan suara, di waktu pagi dan petang, dan janganlah kamu termasuk orang-orang yang lalai.” Surah 7: Al A’raf, Ayat 205

“Orang-orang yang mengingati Allah sambil berdiri atau duduk atau dalam keadaan berbaring dan mereka memikirkan tentang penciptaan langit dan bumi (seraya berkata) “Ya Tuhan kami, tiadalah Engkau menciptakan ini dengan sia-sia, Maha Suci Engkau, maka peliharalah kami dari siksa neraka.” Surah 3: Al Imran Ayat 191

“Sesungguhnya Aku lah Allah, tidak ada Tuhan selainKu, maka sembahlah Aku dan dirikanlah salat untuk mengingat Aku.” Surah 20 Ta Ha Ayat 14

Tips for a special friendship

Friendship is a most beautiful thing happened to human being. We all meet some people with whom we never had a kinship, but they become so special in our life that it becomes hard to live without them. Let us see some points we should consider while playing a role in friendship. Many poets have described friendship as one of the most fascinating bond we ever make in our life. It's the most beautiful thing that happens to us.

Friendship is a relation that is entirely based on trust, belief of two friends in each other. We come across many things in our lives, about which we do not tell anything to people near and dear to us, but we freely tell everything to our friends. Many people find good friends but they fail to continue with their friendship, because they do not know their role as a friend.Let us see some important points that we should take care of if we wish to be good friend for someone:

Be a secrete admirer of your friend:

If your friend is good at something then do not praise him/her in his/her presence. Praising a person for what he/she is good, does not improve his/her qualities, but can cause over-confidence to be induced in him/her, which surely will be harmful for your friend. A good friend should never miss an opportunity to praise his/her friend in front of others when he/she is not around.

Don't proved him/her wrong in public:
As it is important not to praise a friend openly in his/her presence, it is also very much important to abstain from proving him/her wrong in front of other people. Take him/her away from the crowd and let him/her know where he/she is wrong. There is no point in proving your friend wrong in other's presence; it will spoil your friend's image in other's view. And additionally your friendship will be in danger.

Try to understand your friend:
It is always important to understand what your friend is worried about or what problems he/she is facing. Always try to understand the situation your friend is in and try to soothe him/her. It is evident that if people are undergoing some problems, they will not speak up their problems to their brothers or sisters, they will instead tell everything to their friends. Let your friend speak up, just listen to him/her and be with him/her until your friend does not come out of frustration.

Pull Your Friend Away From Making Mistakes:
If your friend is doing something wrong, it is your duty to let him/her know it at earliest. Keep in mind; best friend has to play a role of critic if he/she wants his/her friend to stop doing wrong things. But again keep in mind not to show your friends mistakes in front of other people. Sometimes it is important to understand your friend's intentions behind his/her actions and try to analyze situation, then only you should give your opinion.

The Ego Problem:
Never let ego spoil your friendship. It is no reason to be jealous if your friend is not at all able to speak to you and is with someone else, you have to be his/her friend, do not expect word of gratitude from the person you think is your friend. Sometimes there could be a clash between you and your friend, and you both stop talking to each other for some time, it is not at all wrong to speak first and say sorry to your friend, no matter what happens.

Try to Teach Good Things:
If you are a true friend, you should never give your hungry friend a fish, instead, you should teach him/her how to fish, this will give your friend food for lifetime. A good friend will never wish his/her friend to be dependent on someone.

Do Not Interfere:
Most important point that one should take care of is that your friend has his/her own life and you should not interfere in his/her life. You have a right to tell your friend what is good and what is bad, but you do not have a right to make someone do what you wish. Hope this will help you out solve some of your problems you are facing in friendship.

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LEMBARAN HIDUP WANITA SOLEHAH

Mampukah aku menjadi seperti Khadijah
Agung cintanya pada Allah dan Rasulullah
Hartanya diperjuangkan ke jalan Fisabilillah
Penawar hati kekasih Allah
Susah dan senang rela bersama...

Dapatkah kudidik jiwa seperti Aishah?
Isteri Rasulullah yang bijaksana
Pendorong tatkala kesusahan dan penderitaan
Tiada sukar untuk dilaksanakan
Lantaran keikhlasan yang sentiasa bersarang
Mengalir air mataku

Melihat pengorbanan puteri solehah Fatimah
Akur dalam setiap perintah
Taat dengan ayahandanya yang sentiasa berjuang
Tiada sebarang harta dunia
Layaklah dia penghulu wanita syurga...

Ketika aku marah
Ingin kuintip serpihan sabar
Dari catatan hidup Siti Sarah
Mampukah aku menjadi wanita solehah seperti mereka?
Mati dalam keunggulan iman
Bersinar indah, harum tersebar
Bagai wanginya pusara Masyitah

(Hadiah untuk muslimah)

kembali bertaut..

Saya terpanggil untuk menulis dlm blog ni krn ingin berkongsi kegembiraan saya ketika sambutan aidilfitri tahun ini...semuanya bermula pada bulan ramadhan yg lalu..

saya melayari blog seorang sahabat lama..sahabat yang dah 11 tahun x berjumpa. Sahabat ini bercadang untuk berkumpul semula dan berhari raya ke rumah cikgu2 dan sahabat2 lama.

saya begitu teruja kerana begitu lama sekali kami semua terputus hubungan. Hampir 11 tahun sejak tahun 6 lagi.

Pada hari raya ke-4, kami berjumpa dan beraya ke rumah cikgu suriati iaitu cikgu kelas kami (6 Mawar). Walaupun hanya 6 orang namun tautan yg telah lama hilang kembali bertaut kembali..Kami bertukar2 cerita dan perkembangan terbaru. Telah banyak perubahan berlaku..ada yang sudah mempunyai kerjaya yang hebat2, yang masih belajar, yang telah berkahwin dan banyak lg.

kami beraya bukan setakat 1 hari tetapi 3 hari..pd hari raya ke-5, kami beraya ke rumah sahabat2..makin lama makin ramai sahabat dapat dikumpulkan. Antaranya syatila, najiyah, natasha, nazrul amir, fazrul anuar, suria, azlia, aminah, taqiyuddin,sukiman, siti sarah, siti fatimah nur, faisol, alwi,saiful dan ramai lagi..

saya harap tautan ini tidak akan ada penghujungnaya dan biarlah ia terus bertaut buat selama-lamanya.